"The burden of becoming a parent is higher than even that of a Head of State. As a mom, if you were doing something wrong, it would harm your kids. We can never be free from our duty toward the children that are born to us. Your job as a parent should be to grow your child well and to lead him on the right path.
He is going to be disobedient if he converses with you in a disrespectful manner, and you also do the same.
You should explain things to him in a gentle and caring way. It is the parents' primary role.
Behind all your acts should be a divine awareness.
Like so many things, speaking and listening can be done poorly, good, or very well. And like any other talent, with practice, it gets stronger.
Listening is vital for having a good relationship with children. Listening enables parents to speak and listen, to kids and explain to them how they feel they should respond and react sensitively to all sorts of stuff-not just good things or good news but also frustration, embarrassment, depression or anxiety based on the language of the body as well as actions and the perception of nonverbal modes of communication. Whatever tools we use to help us listen, those concepts provide the foundation for listening. It's not easy to be a professional listener.
This demands that practitioners demonstrate integrity, fairness, and diligence, be prompt, creative, and work together. Active listening calls for consideration for everyone we hear. We must understand that children of all ages, backgrounds, and abilities are unique.
Daily contact and interaction with kids are essential.
We don't want these experiences to be a struggle. The critical button that we would like to press is not to damage the personality of our kids. Begin the day with words of devotion. The children are our dependents. You're here for their comfort and affection.
