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Love. Self. Umy!Play Episode
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“During my first-time sex, I didn’t even know where my keyhole was.”I keep thinking about this saying.
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I know my body very well, and I know everything about sex, so why would I say things like that?
Because I am afraid of others invading my privates. I am wary of their demands for my personal privacy. Moreover, I am most afraid of people touching my private organs with their own private body parts.
This "keyhole" is both a physical body private and a psychological secret life. It is a "doorway" into my private sphere.
"How is that possible? Don't you love me? You said you want it! You started it first! Why did you act as if you are the victim." Even in an intimate relationship, regardless of gender, we all care the most about our keyholes. We are all guarding in front of our own doorways.
We may also be individuals who “enter” the doorways. Especially our own doors, with fingers, sex toys, or imagination.
OK, so what does this fear itself imply? Some argued, "I'm not afraid, I'm looking forward to the entrance!" And some said, "I'm super scared, does this mean that I have virginity complex?"
Type 1 people who are used to transcending their fears, turn their fears into sex excitement and anticipation. Type 2 people with a strong awareness of individuality know that when fear comes, it is time to listen to their feelings, minds, and bodies.
Which type of people am I?
Both Type 1 & Type 2.
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